Joan added a few more thoughts to her Stamper's Neurosis post - you can read part 2 here:
Make sure to read part 1 (of you haven't already) then read part 2 - I totally agree w/ all that she had to say - and part 2 was VERY good for clearing up some of the confusion (I was thinking a LOT of the same things!!)
Thank you Adelle for letting me know that a Part 2 was posted!! *grin*